Marc Reflects

  We Were Not Born Just to Survive Marc Reflects I have come to believe that many of us—especially in places where struggle is normalized—are trained to aim low, not out of laziness, but out of necessity. We survive because survival is the immediate task, not because it is the full story of what we were meant to be. I’ve seen this pattern in the lives of youth who hustle daily with no margin for rest, in mothers who stretch every coin and every prayer, in children raised to be quiet, respectful, and unquestioning—because questioning hunger, rent, or pain feels like complaining against life itself. But what if we pause and ask: Were we really born just to survive? This reflection is not just about me. It’s about us—those of us renting dreams, raising children in scarcity, starting businesses with zero capital, or carrying childhood wounds like invisible luggage. I write this for the ones who are tired of simply making it through and feel the ache of wanting more. The Po...

  A Guide to Rising Above Adversity: 4 Anchors Explained By Marc Reflects There was a time in my life when I thought that worrying harder would somehow fix everything. I worried about my poor living conditions, a strange illness that nobody seemed to understand, and a future that looked more like a wall than a road. But worry didn’t save me. It made me sick. Ulcers. Chest pain. Sleepless nights. What saved me was response — a decision to take back control over what I could influence. Today, I want to share with you four powerful anchors that helped me rise from despair. Whether you’re facing disease, poverty, mental exhaustion, or just the chaos of life, these four pillars might just become your turning point: 1. Willpower: The Inner Fire That Sustains You “The spirit of a man will sustain him in sickness, but a broken spirit, who can bear?” — Proverbs 18:14 This verse from King Solomon became a mirror for my soul. What got me through wasn’t money or miracles. ...

  🌟 Don’t Compete — Create By Marc Reflects If you believe that you are made in the image of God, then understand this: you are not just a follower, you are a creator. And if God is the Creator, then His image in you means that you too were born with the power to imagine, design, and bring new things to life. But today, I see something troubling. Most people are not living their lives. They are living someone else’s idea of success, copying styles, mimicking businesses, chasing attention, and competing in a game they never chose . 🧩 The Copy-Paste Life I’ve watched people buy clothes, cars, or even houses   not because they need them, but because someone else has them . Not because it reflects who they are but because they want to outshine the neighbor. And this mindset doesn’t stop with personal choices. It’s everywhere in business. People don’t ask: “What is mine to bring into this world?” They ask: “What is trending that I can copy?” 📌 But copying ...

  A Guide to Developing the Eye for Local Opportunities By Marc Reflects We often hear people say, “There are no opportunities around me.” But I’ve learned that this is rarely true. In fact, opportunities are all around us waiting to be seen, shaped, and seized. The problem is not their absence, but our vision. 👁 ️ Is It Scarcity or Blindness? Many of us are trained by circumstance, by fear, or by repeated failure to see problems instead of potential. We look at our surroundings and think “Not enough,” when in fact, everything might be enough if only we looked again. 👉 Real entrepreneurs don’t wait for perfect conditions, they create them. They understand this simple truth: a problem is often a disguised opportunity. “Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.” — Thomas Edison 🔍 Training Your Eye to See Differently Let’s be honest: most opportunities don’t come gift-wrapped. They come as: A leaking tap → a...

💰 How I Saved 1 Million Rwandan Francs by Reorganizing My Family Spending By Marc Reflects Let’s be honest, whether you're single or raising a family, money can vanish fast. One moment it’s there, the next moment you're wondering where it all went. I used to think my income wasn’t enough   until I discovered that what you spend matters more than what you earn . One of my most eye-opening realizations came when I hired a housemaid. Before she joined us, our monthly water bill was around 4,000 RWF. Not long after, it doubled   not because she was wasteful, but because we weren’t tracking or managing how water was being used in the home. Kids playing endlessly with water, lights left on, devices charging day and night… all seemed small   but small leaks can sink big ships. “Beware of little expenses. A small leak will sink a great ship.” — Benjamin Franklin 🔍 The Turning Point: Awareness Is the First Form of Wealth When I began monitoring our spending — trul...

The Truth About Saving: What They Don’t Tell You By Marc Reflects  We often hear the same advice:  "You must save to build a better future."  Financial experts, social media posts, and motivational speakers tell us that saving—even just a little—can change your life. While that may hold true for some, here’s the truth many avoid saying out loud:  saving is not possible for everyone, at least not in the way it's often presented . From my own lived experience, I’ve come to challenge this popular narrative. Saving Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All If you have a  stable, monthly-paying job , saving can feel manageable. You know what to expect and can plan accordingly. But what about those of us with  irregular incomes —the freelancers, small-scale service providers, or people depending on donations and inconsistent gigs? I've been there. I tried to adopt the saving discipline. I created a structure for myself. For example, if I earned between  5,000 to 1...

  HOW I BROKE THE CYCLE OF POVERTY? ONE STEP AT A TIME By Marc Reflects Action: The Only Proof of Vision I made a promise to myself: I will never allow poverty to define me again. Not because I’m afraid of struggle, I’ve tasted it but because I’ve learned this truth: only action turns struggle into strength . “A dream written down with a date becomes a goal. A goal broken down into steps becomes a plan. A plan backed by action makes your dreams come true.” — Greg S. Reid   Action Has Rescued Me from Idleness It’s action that freed me from the dull fog of idleness. It pushed me off the bench of wishful thinking, out of the gallery of spectators, and into the field where things get built. When I started moving , everything changed. My energy came back. My mind sharpened. I stopped waiting   and started building. “ An ounce of action is worth a ton of theory.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson Action Is the Bridge between Ideas and Impact Action is the road to accompl...