Finding Wisdom and Folly: Reflections on Suffering and Pleasure
By Marc Reflects | September 2025 I keep coming back to a saying that has lingered in my mind: "On trouve le sage lΓ oΓΉ il y a la souffrance et le sot lΓ oΓΉ on s'amuse." "You find the wise where there is suffering, and the fool where there is amusement." At first glance, it feels almost like a rule carved into human experience: suffering breeds wisdom, pleasure fosters folly. But the more I reflect, the more I realize that this is not just a simple truth—it is a mirror of human nature, revealing our contradictions, our blind spots, and the choices we make in response to life’s pressures. The Quiet Classroom of Hardship Suffering is often silent, personal, and unavoidable. A difficult childhood, the loss of a loved one, chronic illness, or economic hardship—these are experiences no one seeks, yet they are teachers in ways that comfort rarely can be. I’ve noticed in my own life and in observing others that wisdom tends to emerge in the cracks of disco...